Often times  when we are wronged, we naively believe that in order

to be aligned with divine forgiveness, we are supposed to allow

this person the same access to our lives that they once had. Also

false. Forgiveness is freeing yourself from the resentment of pain

through this understanding that respectful absence can be a form of

forgiveness as well. Not everyone whom desires access to your

life. heart, and your spirit are worthy of the access they seek.

Protect it. Your time is your most valuable asset. By all means be

selfless to those whom will appreciate it. But to continuously allow

yourself to be used and suffer through other’s actions, you’re doing

no one any justice. Take care of you first so that you can take care

of your purpose and be all that you were meant to be.